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Why I am antisocial.
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Why I am antisocial.

I was in a class, and I was asked a question. I answered, and got laughed at by the teacher and the students when they heard my voice. Even my "friends" were cracking up at my voice. It's my normal voice. I cannot change it. Why am I so hated? Because this world views it is more important to have a good voice and appearance than a good mind.

And this is the primary reason I am introverted and antisocial. Because people just laugh at me.

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09-30-2011 08:25 AM
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RE: Why I am antisocial.

Not to mention nobody really cares what anybody says anyway unless its to repower their own ego.

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

(09-30-2011 08:25 AM)flann Wrote:  Why am I so hated? Because this world views it is more important to have a good voice and appearance than a good mind.

And this is the primary reason I am introverted and antisocial. Because people just laugh at me.

I don't necessarily think they hate you. I think you're jumping to conclusions too fast. I've seen people laugh at much worse. Perhaps everyone was in that "mood" where they could laugh at pretty much anything. I'd just laugh it off as well. It'll be forgotten anyways.

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

Hmm, I know the feeling about being laughed at... how do you know it was your voice they were laughing at though?

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

(09-30-2011 08:30 AM)HeartofShadows Wrote:  Not to mention nobody really cares what anybody says anyway unless its to repower their own ego.

Definitely this.

ETA: Well, actually, not all of the time. But as you are in HS and HS-goers usually are no-life cuntwads with black holes the size of Mars in their souls, chances are they only laugh to make themselves feel better.

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

Why in the fuck WOULD you be social in the most anti-life place on earth
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RE: Why I am antisocial.

What's the matter with your voice? If it really is your voice they're laughing at, and it doesn't change (?), your teacher and classmates should be or get used to it (whatever it is), shouldn't they? And it shouldn't keep you from speaking... I know this is sth easy to say and probably impossibly hard to achieve, but you need to stop caring!

I'm not a native speaker, please be lenient.
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(09-30-2011 09:49 AM)SoulRiser Wrote:  Hmm, I know the feeling about being laughed at... how do you know it was your voice they were laughing at though?

Well they used to asked me 'Are you German' or 'Are you British' but now they say 'you sound 2 years old'

Yes I do ignore it.
(09-30-2011 09:41 PM)BaronVonStrangle Wrote:  Why in the fuck WOULD you be social in the most anti-life place on earth

Good point, my out-of-school friends don't make fun of it. But I only have like 2, because I spend all my time IN school (or in homework)

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

They probably have the mental capacity of a 2 year old... wait, no, that's insulting towards 2 year olds...

Sounds like it's time to start skipping homework. Razz

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(10-14-2011 11:01 PM)SoulRiser Wrote:  They probably have the mental capacity of a 2 year old... wait, no, that's insulting towards 2 year olds...

Fucking this.

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

I just want to point out...you probably mean asocial, not antisocial.

From wiki: Asocial means "avoidant of society" while antisocial means "hostile toward society".
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RE: Why I am antisocial.

^I see, hence the prefix "anti-"

But, I guess I could be called antisocial or asocial...I just think society is fucked up, I don't need to say why, it's been discussed in various other threads multiple times already.

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

They probably were just being stupid. Kids laugh at everything these days, don't take it personal.. ftw
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RE: Why I am antisocial.

Quote:I was in a class, and I was asked a question. I answered, and got laughed at by the teacher and the students when they heard my voice. Even my "friends" were cracking up at my voice. It's my normal voice. I cannot change it. Why am I so hated? Because this world views it is more important to have a good voice and appearance than a good mind.

And this is the primary reason I am introverted and antisocial. Because people just laugh at me.

Yeah, I've been made fun of for having a wierd voice (mostly because I have an accent) but no one really does it anymore, (because my accent has changed after living here for so long) except for a few idiots.
I have become more introverted over the years, but I try to be social still. There are people who accept me for who I am, and people who don't.
Besides, things are better now. Now when people laugh at me, they do it behind my back.

I don't have it as bad as you do. Teachers and my friends don't laugh at me for my voice.
Funny thing is, people I meet outside of school are a lot more accepting.
I know it's pretty damn hard to be in this situation, but it'll pass. You will find people who accept you for who you are. I was just lucky to meet some in high school.

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(11-09-2011 11:49 PM)Horrid Dreamer Wrote:  [quote
Besides, things are better now. Now when people laugh at me, they do it behind my back.

This is the problem. They think I'm retarded; they do it right in front of me and act like it never happened. However I got like 3 friends now... still mad at that teacher.

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Its perfectly fine the entire world see the way you make them see you.Have confidence overcome your fear every child is special and blessed one that what i believe dear.I have the stammering problem but with help of therapies we can improve.

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(11-16-2011 03:20 PM)AndrewSimon Wrote:  Its perfectly fine the entire world see the way you make them see you.Have confidence overcome your fear every child is special and blessed one that what i believe dear.I have the stammering problem but with help of therapies we can improve.

i loled

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RE: Why I am antisocial.

You know, I have the same problem.Everytime I talk, read a book paragraph or just ask something, my classmates just laugh their ass off or repeat my voice in a retard tone. It is just SO annoying.

Really, I'm going to beat one of them if they don't stop laughing at me or repeating my voice in this retard tone . I don't care if i am going to receive a fuckin dentetion or another punishment.

I know that violence isn't the best option, and I'm actually somewhat a pacifist. But really, It has been 11 months of being laughed on and having my voice being repeated in a retard tone. They are going to receive a bloody nose and/or a broken teeth soon if they don't stop.
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