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BigWolf Wrote:Agro,

She might just being trying to make you feel guilty as hell, so you'll do what she says. Did you read the brainwashing thread? I think that's relevant in this situation.

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just hang in there
most people including most kids seem to have low tollerance levels because they never went through what free thinkers go through on a daily basis because they just let the government mold there brains so they where rarly if ever ridiculed because they blindly did as they where told to do
Uhoh Rolleyes they complain that we give them a hard time bu if they went through a week (for some 1 day) of what we go through then they would go crazy and blow there brains out

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she seriously disowned you? over school? Wtf

that's just lame. if she's going to throw tantrums over little things like that, then she is clearly the immature one. she's probably insecure and is taking it as some kind of personal insult to her that you don't want to become HER perfect little vision of what she wants you to be.

but you probably already knew that Razz

try not to stress over it. maybe she's hoping stress will break you and you'll come running back or something. don't let that happen. i know she's your mother and all, but nobody would do something like that to you out of love. she doesn't own you and she's kidding herself if she thinks she does.

so basically, go get some hectic exercise and get a few things out of your system, then take a deep breath and start thinking of what you're going to do without your mother.

... good luck ... (why isn't there a "hug" emoticon?)

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Beacuse...Hugs buuuuurn...

Um.Yeah, anyways, hang in there, mate. Your out of school, that's good. Most people would've cracked under all the pressure your under. Good luck.
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SLITZ Wrote:just hang in there
most people including most kids seem to have low tollerance levels because they never went through what free thinkers go through on a daily basis because they just let the government mold there brains so they where rarly if ever ridiculed because they blindly did as they where told to do
Uhoh Rolleyes they complain that we give them a hard time bu if they went through a week (for some 1 day) of what we go through then they would go crazy and blow there brains out

well said, that really sums it up.

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Yeah. Free thinking: Another way to develop above-normal stress tolerance levels =/
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this woman is a raving lunatic

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Toucanman Wrote:Yeah. Free thinking: Another way to develop above-normal stress tolerance levels =/

thats because roughly 95% of people are fuckin idiots
free thinkers realize this and develop the tolerence required to live in a world full of retards like George bush and his fuckin son

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*And Cheney and Collin. (can't forget the other puppet masters) Evil

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no we cant forget the other puppet masters
so lets see theres BUSH DICK & COLLON

Quote:(why isn't there a "hug" emoticon?)

correct me if im wrong but arent you the one who adds the emotes soulriser

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SLITZ Wrote:correct me if im wrong but arent you the one who adds the emotes soulriser

yeah, i was just kinda talkin to myself Laugh

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SoulRiser Wrote:
SLITZ Wrote:correct me if im wrong but arent you the one who adds the emotes soulriser

yeah, i was just kinda talkin to myself Laugh

i do that too thats why im in an assylum (see signature)

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:phew: You wont believe this,but i've been asleep for 1 enitre day, 24 hours.And im still tired,i've been listining to the kill a whole lot,you know that one soulriser. My dad thinks im severly depressed and he wants to take me to some therapist so they can shove pills down my throat,i keep telling him im fine and that i'll just get over it.If i were to tell him the truth he would through me in there with slitz Laugh

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I can realete one time I slept for 29 hours. Well half the time I wasn't asleep I was just thinking. But my mom thought something was wrong with me.
Also this one time I stayed home for 3 days. Thursday, Friday, and Monday. And my mom wondered why I didn't want to go. After I told her it was just because, she came up with all these stupid theories. She even ask me if some one at school was hurting me. (Knowing my mom she was reffering to the "Bad Touch" sort of hurting.) Suspicious
What she couldn't seem to fathom was, its not the things at school that bother me, its school itself. But even after I explained that, she still had her doubts. Confused :getsannoyed:

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ohhhhhhhhhhh a barfing face perhaps lol

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Laugh

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Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh

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that would be intresting

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