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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

-SoulRiser

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Piggy, why are you so angry?
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Piggy, why are you so angry?

Driftglass is one of the best writers I've ever read. He has something important to say. I understand what he means. I think some of you do too.

Quote:Bullied means Dad or Teacher or the Principal or the Priest can offer you useful advice or intercession; terrorized means you learn far too young that adults are often weak or ineffectual of liars.

Terrorized means sitting in your tie and shirt-sleeves in Sunday School, listening to sermons about the Prince of Peace and being kind and forgiving, alongside of people who will pound you into the ground like a tent spike the minute you get outside.

Terrorized means while he or she empathizes, the Teacher is very, very busy and there are so many rules, and they really can’t do a fucking thing.

Terrorized means watching the Principal pin ribbons on the some of the people who just ripped your shirt off and flushed it down the toilet.

Terrorized means discovering to your astonishment that the parents of your tormenters actually teach their little raptors to be brutal pricks and reward them when they're especially good at it.

Terrorized means learning far too early that the System will not defend you if you are an Outsider. That the Large Print Regulations and Commandments that are supposed to protect you always come with tricksy Fine Print that somehow always ends up meaning– so sorry – nothing can be done.

Terrorized means learning bruise-by-bruise that there is a world-full of secret, unwritten rules that protect the same people that the sermons and civics classes condemn.

Terrorized you suddenly discover have been force-marched into a different, alien country, and abandoned there.


More here:
http://driftglass.blogspot.com/2007/06/w...piggy.html

I got nothin'.
07-02-2007 05:45 AM
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Very true.
07-02-2007 09:32 AM
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truly amazing and very powerful

I highly suggest Mobb Deep's albums The Infamous and Hell on Earth, if you have not listened to it yet.
07-02-2007 10:19 AM
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