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Sexism and equality.....

How can a man treat a women equally when
A. they are different (hormones are different espaecially once a month).
B. they go 'treat us equal' while yet we are not allowed to sware around them, be profane or hit according to societies morals.
C. men feal a sexual atraction towards women, and thus almost instantly treat them differently.

Just now i wasn't being sexist, just laying out the facts.

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A. Differences don't interfere with the ideal kind of equality that we most desire.
B. Who the fuck gave you the idea that you aren't allowed to swear around us?
C. Well...not all men are sexually attracted to women. And what of women who are sexually attracted to women? Do they treat them differently?

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A. But they interfere with understanding; and understanding is a part of equality
B. Society tells us 'don't be profane around women'
C. People who are atracted to Women treat women differentyl than men, and vice versa.

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darthmat Wrote:A. But they interfere with understanding; and understanding is a part of equality
B. Society tells us 'don't be profane around women'
C. People who are atracted to Women treat women differentyl than men, and vice versa.
A. Just give them respect, you can't say you fully understand a different guy can you?
B. I was never told by society to not swear infront of a woman, but then again I fucking cuss when I want.
C. Maybe you do, but I don't really treat a woman different if I have a crush on her, I might be alittle more shy but that's about it.
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A. they are different (hormones are different espaecially once a month).
B. they go 'treat us equal' while yet we are not allowed to sware around them, be profane or hit according to societies morals.
C. men feal a sexual atraction towards women, and thus almost instantly treat them differently.

A.yes they are generally more emotional but not all the time and the last comment was a little rude true but rude
B.ok you swear around all of your friends that are girls cyrp yar est joey (lol) but hitting a girl back (and i mean seriously not playfully) just feels wrong for normal guys (buchelor)
C.yes we do but only if there is an atraction (rachel amelia)

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They are treated differently whether we try to do it or not..... is what i am saying.
It is unfair for us to be expected treat them equally, no matter what some one will feel bad.

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udontmatter Wrote:B.ok you swear around all of your friends that are girls cyrp yar est joey (lol) but hitting a girl back (and i mean seriously not playfully) just feels wrong for normal guys (buchelor)
C.yes we do but only if there is an atraction (rachel amelia)

(anything inside quotes is between me and darthmatt (i dont care if he doesnt like it) so you will not understand them)

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adam talked about the parenthesis, u wont get it

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A. All people are different than each other. Equality does not mean treating people the exact same, it means we respect all other people's rights without consideration of any of their characteristics whether they be skin colour, gender, or political orientation.

B. That is hypocrisy and is not about equality at all.

C. Treating people differently is not always against equality because all people are different and require different treatment.
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Kirby Wrote:A. All people are different than each other. Equality does not mean treating people the exact same, it means we respect all other people's rights without consideration of any of their characteristics whether they be skin colour, gender, or political orientation.

B. That is hypocrisy and is not about equality at all.

C. Treating people differently is not always against equality because all people are different and require different treatment.

thank you Kirby (lol adam to your parenthesis) and goodnight

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ok i posted this in another thread but i feel while some women strugle for freedom so they wont be beat (mainly in the middle east afganistan and such)
it is not right to hit women who are free b/c if we do that then women slowly lose there freedom and rights. yes to be treated equaly but not as in hit them like you would hit a man but to treat them with the same respect as you would treat a man not hit her b/c she is a girl. boys are usually stronger and most of the time biger so hitting a girl isnt the same thing as hitting a boy

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You should add some punctuation in there.
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punctuation lol but i will b/c this is a serious topic

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Happy Camper Wrote:B. Who the fuck gave you the idea that you aren't allowed to swear around us?

Quote:according to societies morals.

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well then fuck those cause i swear around all kids male or female (i dont swear in front of little kids, ppl who may beat me up if i do, adults who dont like it, my mom when my bros have been swearing and there is a posible punishment for it and old people)

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A. What kirby said.
B. What kirby said.
C. What kirby said.
( Laugh Kirby's got it down)

Quote:yes to be treated equaly but not as in hit them like you would hit a man but to treat them with the same respect as you would treat a man not hit her b/c she is a girl
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udontmatter Wrote:well then fuck those cause i swear around all kids male or female (i dont swear in front of little kids, ppl who may beat me up if i do, adults who dont like it, my mom when my bros have been swearing and there is a posible punishment for it and old people)

Who would be you up if you swore?
What the fuck?

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Oh, 2 things.

I'm never emotional around my period, and from what I can see, most women just use their rag as an excuse for doing dumb shit.


::warning:: Rant on feminazis ahead

And all the shit about not being profane around women, ect. is retarded. Feminazis usually shout this shit out like its true. They say that men don't respect women and that they should put us on a pedastle and worship us, that we carry their children and without us the human race wouldn't survive. /way voice with long, drawn out syllables

Laugh (I actually saw some retarded bitch preaching this) OK, about the "the human race wouldn't exist is we weren't here" well guess what? If men dissapeared, we'd be in big shit trouble too, because it takes two to tango you numb cunt. And about the "we carry the children" well... as Galen said, we're more or less naturs version of tuperware.
Feminazis usually have this "you must treat us with respect but we can treat you like shit" mentality (My health teacher would always say this) Ofcourse, this is sexism. Most feminists like to be hypocrites.

Sorry, I don't like feminazis.

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modest mouse Wrote:
udontmatter Wrote:well then fuck those cause i swear around all kids male or female (i dont swear in front of little kids, ppl who may beat me up if i do, adults who dont like it, my mom when my bros have been swearing and there is a posible punishment for it and old people)

Who would be you up if you swore?
What the fuck?

ppl who are bigger or stronger than me (or have weapons)

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Quote:If men dissapeared, we'd be in big shit trouble too, because it takes two to tango you numb cunt.

unfortunately for men its untrue there are many ways for women to have children w/o men so we are no longer needed but we still kick ass

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modest mouse Wrote:
udontmatter Wrote:well then fuck those cause i swear around all kids male or female (i dont swear in front of little kids, ppl who may beat me up if i do, adults who dont like it, my mom when my bros have been swearing and there is a posible punishment for it and old people)

Who would be you up if you swore?
What the fuck?

If you ask me, all this "swearing is morally wrong" shit is a load of bullshit.

And it's "beat you up".

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LittleFreak14 Wrote:I'm never emotional around my period, and from what I can see, most women just use their rag as an excuse for doing dumb shit.

I know. I hate that. And I hate feminazis, too. What you just said was so true...

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Eidolon Wrote:[Image: CleonSammichborder-1.png]

...I'm hungry.

if thats a to quote "normal afganistan male" then thats wat its like (no hammer though) if she even makes a complaint like "we have no bread" or "ive been working and am too tired" she will be beat

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Eidolon Wrote:[Image: CleonSammichborder-1.png]

...I'm hungry.

Cleon from The Warriors, eh?

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Dark Soul X Wrote:Cleon from The Warriors, eh?

One of my favorite characters from one of my favorite games.
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Dark Soul X Wrote:Cleon from The Warriors, eh?

One of my favorite characters from one of my favorite games.

Too bad he died. Wait, how'd it happen again? Was he shot?

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Quote:If men dissapeared, we'd be in big shit trouble too, because it takes two to tango you numb cunt.

unfortunately for men its untrue there are many ways for women to have children w/o men so we are no longer needed but we still kick ass
Please explain, because sperm banks can run out.

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Dark Soul X Wrote:
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Dark Soul X Wrote:Cleon from The Warriors, eh?

One of my favorite characters from one of my favorite games.

Too bad he died. Wait, how'd it happen again? Was he shot?

No, the Riffs elbowed him to death.

But we're getting off topic.

I'll hit girls if they hit me.
I don't use foul language. It's not... how I roll.
I think women deserve just as many rights as men, but I'll still treat them differently.
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