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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

-SoulRiser

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I checked the site stats...

Last month (August):
30546 page views by people LOGGED IN
15097 by people not logged in

That does NOT include the forums... so that's actually quite surprising. It used to be the other way around, visitors viewing about 10k a month and members about 1-2k.

25k of those member views were for the intro page. I used to have it that the intro page redirected to the "What's New" page if you were logged in (the one with the latest posts/news and all that)... Should I do that again? It's more useful to people who keep coming back than the intro is Razz

EDIT: 8 days into September, and it's 8651 for visitors and 7849 for members so far. I kinda don't think last month's stats were really complete... :(

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ummm.... tahts lame

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That's because school starts in September. Only people with no lives come on here in August
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wsgosset Wrote:That's because school starts in September. Only people with no lives come on here in August

Good point... less people search for anti-school stuff when school is out. I didn't think of that Razz

But hey, we have lives... they're just online... but they're still lives Smile

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We are doign hwat we want to, when we want to. How is that not having a life?

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Some people seem to think that it only counts as having a life if it happens outside your home or at least away from your computer. Most people use it as a joke, and don't really mean to imply that you actually have no life...

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I know, and i am suing it in that context. Peopel say not having a life measn beign a loser, but i do what i want when i want, how is that beign a loser? Is what i am saying.

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darthmat Wrote:Peopel say not having a life measn beign a loser, but i do what i want when i want, how is that beign a loser?

As long as you're happy, it isn't.

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Exactly me point.

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