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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

-SoulRiser

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Hello

Hi guys, another new member for you all. My name's Tory, I'm 17, and a senior in high school in the fascinating state of Connecticut. (Thats sarcasm, btw)

I'm looking forward to joining in on some topics. Until next time!
12-10-2007 02:11 PM
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WELCOME

Telling people to do something without giving a reason compels them to rebel not to obey-Avenger

We need to learn not to be afraid of making mistakes all the time-Avenger

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Pfft you sound boring...go away.

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Vatman Wrote:Pfft you sound boring...go away.
stop being an ass

Telling people to do something without giving a reason compels them to rebel not to obey-Avenger

We need to learn not to be afraid of making mistakes all the time-Avenger

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12-10-2007 02:13 PM
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Shush....I know her.

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12-10-2007 02:15 PM
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Haha, thanks Avenger.
And thanks for sticking up for me, but I'll have to beat up Vatman tomorrow (you see, I know him IRL) :]
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smashthemirror Wrote:Haha, thanks Avenger.
And thanks for sticking up for me, but I'll have to beat up Vatman tomorrow (you see, I know him IRL) :]
your welcome.lol

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ooo.. you know him IRL... *formulates evil plan* Mwahaha

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12-10-2007 10:15 PM
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Vatman in real life, I'm sorry to hear that, hope things get better soon. Laugh

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12-11-2007 06:05 AM
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Welcome...

Sorry to hear about your troubles. Vatman on a forum is bad enough, I can't imagine how traumatic it must be to know him IRL. Sadhug




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Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh Laugh

And i just looked at your avatar, kick ass.

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12-11-2007 08:15 AM
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My god! You poor bastard! How have you not killed yourself yet? Knowing vatman IRL.... Razz
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*puts head under pillow and cries*

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Vatman Wrote:*puts head under pillow and cries*
why

Telling people to do something without giving a reason compels them to rebel not to obey-Avenger

We need to learn not to be afraid of making mistakes all the time-Avenger

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12-11-2007 11:32 AM
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Ya welcome to the forum, Vat is actaully not bad at all so yall can shut up. Hes also pretty good at teh haloz

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12-12-2007 07:13 AM
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You guys are funny, he is a pain in the ass, but I put up with him (and have since 3rd grade, haha)
12-14-2007 04:24 AM
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wow, 3rd grade? Wow.

And welcome to the foum. Make yourself at home, and Vat isnt really all that bad here, just to let you know.

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12-15-2007 08:15 AM
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good ol vatman for ya. welcome,

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