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Graduation is stupid

Why you may ask, Its celebrating that you wasted 14 years of your life if not more. I hate it when they tell you its a "privilege" to promote or go to gradution. You waste your time, and then you have to earn it.

See the problem is my 8th grade promotion crap is next week. Im not sure if im even allowed to go because of my grades from the 1st semester. Brickwall
I probably left out something.
06-10-2008 04:39 PM
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oooo i didnt get to go to graduation but i never to get to go most the time so it dusnt matter
06-11-2008 02:53 AM
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The only reason I went to my graduation was because my best friend wanted me to go. So I did, and I invited her instead of my stepmother. Which prompted everyone to shit themselves...
06-11-2008 06:05 AM
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Ayliana Wrote:Which prompted everyone to shit themselves...
Wtf
06-11-2008 12:08 PM
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I dislike graduation ceremonies. Mainly because I view it as a bit of a waste of time. Plus the speeches always suck. And being in the band is a pain in the ass too. The lights make it feel like it's 90 degrees. So we get to sit in 90 degree heat for 3 or 4 hours and play Pomp and Circumstance for approx. 18 mins. Which is fucking murder on your jaw. Then we do the same with Rejouissance.

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06-11-2008 12:48 PM
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Graduation - The instant at which you are competent to enroll in college and begin in the workforce.

To a mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders. - Chuang-tzu
The quieter you become, the more you can hear. - Baba Ram Dass
The whole moon and the entire sky are reflected in one dewdrop on the grass. - Dogen
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06-11-2008 03:49 PM
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they force people to go to graduation in this state, luckly ill be back in canada when i grad and not have to see those fucks again. intill i enter work force( no money to move from amherst, and hate the states)

I dont mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am,so thats how it comes out.- bill hicks
06-12-2008 01:05 AM
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they force people to go to graduation in this state, luckly ill be back in canada when i grad and not have to see those fucks again. intill i enter work force( no money to move from amherst, and hate the states)

I dont mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am,so thats how it comes out.- bill hicks
06-12-2008 01:05 AM
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magic Wrote:
Ayliana Wrote:Which prompted everyone to shit themselves...
Wtf

Figurtively speaking. I bucked tradition by not inviting my bitch of a stepmother, so everyone shit themselves over it.
06-12-2008 03:45 AM
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I hate graduations. All those girls trying to be cute by wearing dresses (like it's a fucking wedding) and smiling as if they like the fact that school ruined their whole fucking childhood. I refuse to go to mine...IF I graduate that is. I don't give a crap anymore, I'm sick of everything.
06-12-2008 06:07 AM
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chemistry_hater Wrote:I hate graduations. All those girls trying to be cute by wearing dresses (like it's a fucking wedding) and smiling as if they like the fact that school ruined their whole fucking childhood. I refuse to go to mine...IF I graduate that is. I don't give a crap anymore, I'm sick of everything.

You must absolutely despise proms then, huh?

As for the original topic, I dunno. I could see how graduation ceremonies are a waste of time, but with mine being on Saturday and my mom throwing a party for me, it's kinda hard to be pessimistic about it.
06-12-2008 06:33 AM
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Ugh, graduation -_-"
I'm just going to try and get it over with as painful as it may be.
Then, I'll be free from my awful middle school.
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06-12-2008 06:45 AM
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chemistry_hater Wrote:I hate graduations. All those girls trying to be cute by wearing dresses (like it's a fucking wedding) and smiling as if they like the fact that school ruined their whole fucking childhood. I refuse to go to mine...IF I graduate that is. I don't give a crap anymore, I'm sick of everything.

You must absolutely despise proms then, huh?

As for the original topic, I dunno. I could see how graduation ceremonies are a waste of time, but with mine being on Saturday and my mom throwing a party for me, it's kinda hard to be pessimistic about it.

Oh yeah, I don't want to go to mine. Makes me feel ridiculous. But I have to admit, it's not so much the people acting so happy and everything, it's also because of this problem I have that I won't mention (too personal). So I shouldn't have been so harsh. If I didn't have the problem I would probably like graduations and dances like proms a little more.

And yeah, I think you should be optimistic about it. I apologize if I had offended you with my last post.
06-12-2008 06:55 AM
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It's cool, I wasn't offended in any way whatsoever. Smile
06-12-2008 10:35 AM
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I had my graduation ceremony on June 3rd.
For some reason, everybody started cheering when my name was called and I got my diploma.
06-12-2008 01:19 PM
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BobManPerson Wrote:I had my graduation ceremony on June 3rd.
For some reason, everybody started cheering when my name was called and I got my diploma.


'Grats.
06-13-2008 10:56 AM
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Dude I did graduation today.


Fucking sucked.

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What happened. i found out our grad crap or promotion is like 3 hours in the sun. What a bunch of bull. Its bad enough, jezz. I really want my school to be gone.
06-13-2008 05:32 PM
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