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What are some of your most controversial opinions?
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Re: What are some of your most controversial opinions?

Ayliana Wrote:
jnkbortka Wrote:no, I just like kids, how hard is that to understand?

There's nothing hard to understand. But there is no reason to need 25 of them.

Also to answer your earlier comment; The Quiverfull may not explicitly shun adoption but it's clearly not as esteemed as natural childbirth. By virtue of the fact that you people don't believe in any form of contraception or family planning, the vast majority of quiverfull children are natural offspring and adopted children come after wards, or as a backup plan in the event of infertility.

Ergo adopted < genetic children in the quiverfull community.

Not really. http://www.emergingwomen.us/tag/quiverfull/
they talk about adoption about half way down

magikarp Wrote:
jnkbortka Wrote:
magikarp Wrote:Hey guise, I'm gonna act in a way that's probably against my own best interests as well as completely unsustainable as an ideology 'cause ~motherfuckers can't tell me what to do~.
FALSE!
Um, if everyone has 20 children, that's 10 times population growth in a generation. Regardless of how close we are to overpopulation now, it's an obvious fact that we live on a planet with finite space and finite resources, and population growth can't continue indefinitely.

I realize that not everyone would do it in practice, but if it would be catastrophic for everyone to do it over the long term, then as an ideology it is unsustainable. If it's good, why would it not be good for everyone so inclined to do it?
Which is why I said before, I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH YOU NOT HAVING ANY KIDS (as long as you don't kill anyone to achieve that), just don't tell me how many kids to have
08-07-2011 12:06 PM
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[] - Alucard483 - 09-21-2008, 06:37 AM
Re: What are some of your most controversial opinions? - jnkbortka - 08-07-2011 12:06 PM

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