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Its sad that freethinkers are mostly berated
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Asder Miller
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Its sad that freethinkers are mostly berated
Freethinkers, meaning people who say, do, and, think whatever they want to who they want, however and whenever they want.
They usually tell you what your problem is and they don't tip toe around it either. These people are sometimes considered "assholes" by the majority and are shunned or attacked by them.
Sad ain't it?
What causes people to be freethinkers in this sense and why do people hate them?
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Re: Its sad that freethinkers are moslty loners
Free thinkers = Loners? When did this start?
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Because people don't want to know about their own problems?
I'm wondering how you managed to spell your entire post correctly while making a mistake in the title.
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Freethinkers speak the truth. People are too enveloped in their fantasy world and they get mad when others pop it.
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Exactly, people believe what they want to. Look at history, it will tell you time and time again that this is the case.
I don't want to get into a religious debate on this thread but look at humankind's tendency to invent deities in pretty much every culture that ever existed.
Go to work. Send your kids to school. Follow fashion. Act normal. Walk on the pavement. Watch TV. Save for your old age. Obey the law. Repeat after me: "I am free."
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And then claim that THEIR god(s) is the only true one. Talk about delusional
Freedom is never given; it is always taken. So for the fact that you're not a slave, don't thank those in authority. Thank someone with a "bad attitude."
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Geeksta Wrote:And then claim that THEIR god(s) is the only true one. Talk about delusional
All of them can't be real, but they all can be fake.
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Although the universe is so complicated it pretty much has to have been designed (to support life, given the narrow conditions), but such a God as I picture it is indifferent to human affairs.
Freedom is never given; it is always taken. So for the fact that you're not a slave, don't thank those in authority. Thank someone with a "bad attitude."
-Kevin Carson
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All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
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Geeksta Wrote:Although the universe is so complicated it pretty much has to have been designed (to support life, given the narrow conditions)
"How can it possibly be rational to conclude that the universe was fine-tuned for life, when we don’t yet know how life got started and therefore what conditions had to be in place for that to happen? "
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Negative Wrote:All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
You sound very sure of that.
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People sometimes just don't like the ideas of others that differ from their own.
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Derchin Wrote:Negative Wrote:All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
You sound very sure of that.
Of course I'm sure. Questioning your own beliefs is the worst thing you can do, as it tends to lead you away from God. But if you're questioning your belief in a different God than mine, then I encourage it.
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Negative Wrote:Derchin Wrote:Negative Wrote:All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
You sound very sure of that.
Of course I'm sure. Questioning your own beliefs is the worst thing you can do, as it tends to lead you away from God. But if you're questioning your belief in a different God than mine, then I encourage it.
Lol. So you're encouraging exactly what's being encouraged on this thread, to believe what you want to believe... or rather, forcing others to believe what you believe. Whatever. Fucking humans, how do they work.
Derchin Wrote:Negative Wrote:All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
You sound very sure of that.
THIS
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Negative Wrote:Derchin Wrote:Negative Wrote:All religions are a path to God. Specifically, my God.
You sound very sure of that.
Of course I'm sure. Questioning your own beliefs is the worst thing you can do, as it tends to lead you away from God. But if you're questioning your belief in a different God than mine, then I encourage it.
This makes no logical sense to me.
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You guys know I wasn't being serious, right?
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Sarcasm, guys. Learn it.
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Thing is, sarcasm on the Internet isn't always so obvious. There are people who actually say crap like that.
Anyway... The best thing to do is speak your mind regardless. Shattering fantasy worlds is one of the few things I still take joy in.
"Oppressed people might overthrow their tyrants, but not if they can count on one day joining the oppressors."
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Asder Miller Wrote:Freethinkers, meaning people who say, do, and, think whatever they want to who they want, however and whenever they want.
No.
Quote:Pronunciation:/friːˈθɪŋkə/
noun
a person who rejects accepted opinions, especially those concerning religious belief.
I mostly dislike freethinkers for being arrogant, presumptuous dicks who behave like they know everything. Just as I dislike believers.
Holding opposite beliefs != those beliefs becoming true.
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Faby Wrote:I mostly dislike freethinkers for being arrogant, presumptuous dicks who behave like they know everything. Just as I dislike believers.
Oh damn I hate those kind of people too.
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Negative Wrote:You guys know I wasn't being serious, right?
I knew you were joking the entire time. I went along with it.
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Faby Wrote:I mostly dislike freethinkers for being arrogant, presumptuous dicks who behave like they know everything.
THIS.
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