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The Only Moral Abortion is my Abortion
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The Only Moral Abortion is my Abortion

A both interesting and saddening read. Full thing is here:
http://www.dailykos.com/story/2007/7/22 ... /25/361020

Quote:"I have done several abortions on women who have regularly picketed my clinics, including a 16 year old schoolgirl who came back to picket the day after her abortion, about three years ago. During her whole stay at the clinic, we felt that she was not quite right, but there were no real warning bells. She insisted that the abortion was her idea and assured us that all was OK. She went through the procedure very smoothly and was discharged with no problems. A quite routine operation. Next morning she was with her mother and several school mates in front of the clinic with the usual anti posters and chants. It appears that she got the abortion she needed and still displayed the appropriate anti views expected of her by her parents, teachers, and peers." (Physician, Australia)

"I've had several cases over the years in which the anti-abortion patient had rationalized in one way or another that her case was the only exception, but the one that really made an impression was the college senior who was the president of her campus Right-to-Life organization, meaning that she had worked very hard in that organization for several years. As I was completing her procedure, I asked what she planned to do about her high office in the RTL organization. Her response was a wide-eyed, 'You're not going to tell them, are you!?' When assured that I was not, she breathed a sigh of relief, explaining how important that position was to her and how she wouldn't want this to interfere with it." (Physician, Texas)

"In 1990, in the Boston area, Operation Rescue and other groups were regularly blockading the clinics, and many of us went every Saturday morning for months to help women and staff get in. As a result, we knew many of the 'antis' by face. One morning, a woman who had been a regular 'sidewalk counselor' went into the clinic with a young woman who looked like she was 16-17, and obviously her daughter. When the mother came out about an hour later, I had to go up and ask her if her daughter's situation had caused her to change her mind. 'I don't expect you to understand my daughter's situation!' she angrily replied. The following Saturday, she was back, pleading with women entering the clinic not to 'murder their babies.'" (Clinic escort, Massachusetts)

"We too have seen our share of anti-choice women, ones the counselors usually grit their teeth over. Just last week a woman announced loudly enough for all to hear in the recovery room, that she thought abortion should be illegal. Amazingly, this was her second abortion within the last few months, having gotten pregnant again within a month of the first abortion. The nurse handled it by talking about all the carnage that went on before abortion was legalized and how fortunate she was to be receiving safe, professional care. However, this young woman continued to insist it was wrong and should be made illegal. Finally the nurse said, 'Well, I guess we won't be seeing you here again, not that you're not welcome.' Later on, another patient who had overheard this exchange thanked the nurse for her remarks." (Clinic Administrator, Alberta)

"We saw a woman recently who after four attempts and many hours of counseling both at the hospital and our clinic, finally, calmly and uneventfully, had her abortion. Four months later, she called me on Christmas Eve to tell me that she was not and never was pro-choice and that we failed to recognize that she was clinically depressed at the time of her abortion. The purpose of her call was to chastise me for not sending her off to the psych unit instead of the procedure room." (Clinic Administrator, Alberta)

"Recently, we had a patient who had given a history of being a 'pro-life' activist, but who had decided to have an abortion. She was pleasant to me and our initial discussion was mutually respectful. Later, she told someone on my staff that she thought abortion is murder, that she is a murderer, and that she is murdering her baby. So before doing her procedure, I asked her if she thought abortion is murder - the answer was yes. I asked her if she thought I am a murderer, and if she thought I would be murdering her baby, and she said yes. But murder is a crime, and murderers are executed. Is this a crime? Well, it should be, she said. At that point, she became angry and hostile, and the summary of the conversation was that she regarded me as an abortion-dispensing machine, and how dare I ask her what she thinks. After explaining to her that I do not perform abortions for people who think I am a murderer or people who are angry at me, I declined to provide her with medical care. I do not know whether she found someone else to do her abortion." (Physician, Colorado)
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Hypocrites

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Lol I remember reading that somewhere before. It's pretty fucking pathetic.
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Thought Criminal Wrote:Lol I remember reading that somewhere before. It's pretty fucking pathetic.

Probably on SnipeMe. There's a guest rant about those sad sacks of hypocritical shit.
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Yeah, That's where it was.
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I am sorely tempted to make an advice dog esque image based off this story
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Laugh

I don't care whether people are for abortion or against it, but at least be fuckin' consistent about it. Stupid hypocrites. Giggle

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Re: The Only Moral Abortion is my Abortion

SoulRiser Wrote:Laugh

I don't care whether people are for abortion or against it, but at least be fuckin' consistent about it. Stupid hypocrites. Giggle

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BaronVonStrangle Wrote:I am sorely tempted to make an advice dog esque image based off this story
What would the text be?
Something like:
PROTEST ABORTION
GET ONE DONE BECAUSE YOU'RE SPECIAL

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I would have done something like

ALL ABORTION IS MURDER

UNLESS IT'S MY ABORTION

and the central image would be a young woman who you could tell from appearance was gonna be stuck up.
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That article was pathetic. On another note, my grandma wanted my mom to abort me. Yay for mom being pro life. ;D

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That's not advice dog, that's courage wolf.

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Here you go. I wouldn't want to think about her even needing to get an abortion but the thought process fits the meme.

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Eww.
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(04-28-2011 11:03 AM)Thought Criminal Wrote:  Here you go. I wouldn't want to think about her even needing to get an abortion but the thought process fits the meme.

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