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High school

My parents are giving me no choice at all in what my high school will be. I'm being sent to notre dame, a catholic school. I was kicked out of a Christian school for speaking about evolution in Bible class. Where the hell is the logic in that? If it were up to me, I would be homeschooling myself, learning about things I actually want to know. My mother's reasoning? Public school sucks. Wtf (And I agree...but I would remove the word public).
04-16-2011 04:28 PM
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Yay for freedom!

I guess you could get kicked out again? Shrug If they are forcing you to go to that school, I really doubt their open-mindedness, no offense. Well.
What is your religion? Maybe you could tell them you disagree with what the catholics teach or something, if they wouldn't murder you with sticks.

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04-16-2011 04:34 PM
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I'm atheist. So I this should be interesting...
04-16-2011 04:38 PM
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Do your parents know you're an atheist?

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Re: High school

Since you're young, telling your parents you disagree with Catholicism will usually make them say something along the lines of "You don't know what you're talking about!" or "It's just a phase/act of pointless rebellion/etc."

If they don't know, you should make a list of well-reasoned arguments you feel against Catholicism, like how it seems to reject a lot of science and progress, its treatment of women (trying to guilt them out of abortions, not letting them be priests or run for pope, which is elected by a small group of old, straight males who know nothing about the outside world), its homophobia, its desire to force itself on everyone (lack of separation of Church and State, trying to get prayer into schools), and its exclusion and how people who aren't "saved" are going to hell. I feel your pain; I've been in Catholic school for 6 years, and sadly, you can't tell them to fuck off, and you have to go to Mass since it's a private school and they can force certain things on you.

Good luck, and try to remain calm and reasonable with your parents so they can't accuse you of being immature or unreasonable.
04-17-2011 12:11 AM
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Convince them you are a satanist and tell them you will summon demons to their house unless you are allowed to homeschool yourself.
04-18-2011 10:24 AM
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fish20 Wrote:Convince them you are a satanist and tell them you will summon demons to their house unless you are allowed to homeschool yourself.
I fucking lol'd.

Go to work. Send your kids to school. Follow fashion. Act normal. Walk on the pavement. Watch TV. Save for your old age. Obey the law. Repeat after me: "I am free."

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notre dam where?
04-18-2011 01:58 PM
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Riverside, California.
04-18-2011 06:51 PM
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