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Thought Criminal
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Hmmm that name is familiar. What other books did he write vatman?
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Freak Wrote:Discrimination against males in general is overlooked.
Agreed. Women are often shown as the victims to standards as if men have none.
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i would say that murder is worse than rape. because you dont have a chance to get over it - you're dead. and to whoever posted about rape being permanent and murder not - how much more permanent can you get? you would be dead. not much recovery from that.
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Darthmat Wrote:Freak Wrote:Discrimination against males in general is overlooked.
Agreed. Women are often shown as the victims to standards as if men have none.
I suppose it all stems from the way women used to be treated, and still are, although less widespread. The kind of discrimination only burning your undergarments can stop. I personally would feel less sorry for the man, guilty as I feel to say it. It's a reflex action. On reflection I wouldn't favour one over the other, but instinct is to pity the woman, to bastardize the man. ( I mean a man getting raped and a woman getting raped, not a man raping a woman and me feeling sorry for HIM...)
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No, the proof that a male rape victim will only receive social stigma shows that we still adhere to the old sexism of the past, just in a new form.
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i know him, (well of him)
and yes, i love how major discrimination against women then led to feminists calling for equal rights and then hating all men. yeah, equal rights! ...but just for the women of course! 
if you think about it in an annoying roundabout way, the unfair treatment of male rape victims stems partly from sexism favoring women, which is because women are usually the ones to get raped by men, and they are "weaker." but the whole thought process of them being weaker and more easy to rape is sexism against women...
so once again if we were all just true equalists it would be resolved?
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I honestly enjoy doing both!
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totally rock on i prefer muder its more a skill i fine tuned
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classclown Wrote:totally rock on i prefer muder its more a skill i fine tuned
I think you should work on your grammar more.
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yea i know
life is just blah blah blah. we hope for blah, and sometimes we find it. but mostly its blah. and waiting for blah. and hoping you were right about the blahs you made. and when you think you just got the whole blah damn thing figured out, and your surrounded by the ones you blah. death shows up and blah blah blah.
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^^^GOOD EXAMPLE^^^
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still dont have a problem with either to be honest.murder is easy if you think about it. dosent matter if you have a gun,blunt object,fists. swing for the fences and/or aim well. rape is hard, as you have to stalk the prey,pin the prey(whilst maintain'ing(sp)? a woody) insert, and the fuck and beat the prey...wait.not shure where im going with this. meh.
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Murder.
Although I must agree, sexism towards male is very predominant these days, while sexism towards women has lessened incredibly well.
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i-am-the-liquor Wrote:still dont have a problem with either to be honest.murder is easy if you think about it. dosent matter if you have a gun,blunt object,fists. swing for the fences and/or aim well. rape is hard, as you have to stalk the prey,pin the prey(whilst maintain'ing(sp)? a woody) insert, and the fuck and beat the prey...wait.not shure where im going with this. meh.
Who cares? Murder and rape are still wrong, selfish, and disgusting.
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i would rather be raped. just to clear that up.
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Ch4rl0tt3 Wrote:Really sarah...*wink*
XD, yes. how did i guess that was coming?
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Ch4rl0tt3 Wrote:Because... I can't think of a reason other than 'You taught me everything wrong, disturbed or perverted I know'. So thank you my 'teacher of things school won't teach you' *winkwinknudgenudge*
i know i did. and there is still so much more left...
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∆ Wrote:i-am-the-liquor Wrote:still dont have a problem with either to be honest.murder is easy if you think about it. dosent matter if you have a gun,blunt object,fists. swing for the fences and/or aim well. rape is hard, as you have to stalk the prey,pin the prey(whilst maintain'ing(sp)? a woody) insert, and the fuck and beat the prey...wait.not shure where im going with this. meh.
Who cares? Murder and rape are still wrong, selfish, and disgusting.
to you , selfish little cunt.
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What the fuck kind of fail topic is this? How are you supposed to quantify one over the other? Both suck, you only made this thread because you're an idiot without anything to say.
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lol
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Rape isn't even that bad, at least when it's not on someone innocent
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not really. it rips away your trust of people and fucks with your head. i know a girl who was raped she doesnt let anyone touch her.
life is just blah blah blah. we hope for blah, and sometimes we find it. but mostly its blah. and waiting for blah. and hoping you were right about the blahs you made. and when you think you just got the whole blah damn thing figured out, and your surrounded by the ones you blah. death shows up and blah blah blah.
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the rapist rapes you. you survive.
the murderer murders you. you die.
im pretty sure if i had to choose which one would happen to me, i would choose rape.
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im pretty sure you wouldn't. murder lets you move on its over start a new if you believe in that. and if you don't the suffering is over and now there is just calm. rape the pain is never over you fear everything. you question everyone around you scared desprate to get through life.
life is just blah blah blah. we hope for blah, and sometimes we find it. but mostly its blah. and waiting for blah. and hoping you were right about the blahs you made. and when you think you just got the whole blah damn thing figured out, and your surrounded by the ones you blah. death shows up and blah blah blah.
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You can't regret being killed, because your dead. But you can regret being raped.
Had to move on. Account is dead.
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