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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

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Darthmat Wrote:That's why we're in this right now.


Oh how loveable.
Admins blaim users.
Users blaim admins.

Let go of all desire for the common good, and the good becomes common as grass.

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Something_Spacey Wrote:
Darthmat Wrote:Wrong. Too little people with power is a hierachy.

Anyways, 'them' refers to all non-admins. No, not all of you are 'bad,' but too many of you are. That's why we're in this right now.

No, you're just a silly little boy, who thinks he's hard.
You're insulting me of thinking I'm (and this is assuming hard means something positive, no idea wha the fuck you meant) great then I am? Well, you're right. But look whose talking.

I highly suggest Mobb Deep's albums The Infamous and Hell on Earth, if you have not listened to it yet.
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Darthmat Wrote:Wrong. Too little people with power is a hierachy.

Anyways, 'them' refers to all non-admins. No, not all of you are 'bad,' but too many of you are. That's why we're in this right now.

Yes, but if just Soul was admin, she wouldn't BEHAVE like she was the head of a hierarchy, unlike people like YOU who have been made admins and abuse the power, staring down their noses at others as if to expect them to bow down...
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Darthmat Wrote:You're insulting me of thinking I'm (and this is assuming hard means something positive, no idea wha the fuck you meant) great then I am? Well, you're right. But look whose talking.

Thats nice, whatever you say.
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Darthmat Wrote:Why should they be given what they don't deserve?


Yar Har Fiddle Dee Dee
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Do what you want 'cause a faggot is free
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Can you get your story straight? Do nyou want us to do more or less?

I highly suggest Mobb Deep's albums The Infamous and Hell on Earth, if you have not listened to it yet.
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We want you out, and better representatives in. Is that so much to ask??

Who am I? That is irrelevant.
What am I here for? That will become apparent.
You can call me Apathy!
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Darthmat Wrote:Can you get your story straight? Do nyou want us to do more or less?

More things which mods and admins are created for, less faggotry.

And yay for the modification of You are a Pirate, it is truth.
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Darthmat, you can be just as bad as the non-admins. only you have the power to clear up the forums. all the members on here are one group - without a 'they and 'us'.

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"The irrationality of a thing is no argument against its existence, rather a condition of it."

"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
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"when I was a kid I used to pray for a bicycle. then I realized that god doesn't work that way. so I stole one and prayed for forgiveness."
"I would rather die for something I believe in than live for anything else."
"What is the task of higher education? To make a man into a machine. What are the means employed? He is taught how to suffer being bored." – F W Nietzsche
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Something_Spacey Wrote:We want you out, and better representatives in. Is that so much to ask??
Like who? You?

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
The quickest way to kill a revolution is to wait for it.
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Something_Spacey Wrote:We want you out, and better representatives in. Is that so much to ask??
Like who? You?

I already said, I disqualify myself from being considered for mod/ad.

I don't want power, I want this forum to not suck ass

Who am I? That is irrelevant.
What am I here for? That will become apparent.
You can call me Apathy!
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Rebelnerd Wrote:
Something_Spacey Wrote:We want you out, and better representatives in. Is that so much to ask??
Like who? You?
im scared just by imagining that

Hidden stuff:
"A 'no' uttered from deepest conviction is better and greater than a 'yes' merely uttered to please, or what is worse, to avoid trouble." - Mahatma Gandhi

"The irrationality of a thing is no argument against its existence, rather a condition of it."

"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
-Ben Franklin

"when I was a kid I used to pray for a bicycle. then I realized that god doesn't work that way. so I stole one and prayed for forgiveness."
"I would rather die for something I believe in than live for anything else."
"What is the task of higher education? To make a man into a machine. What are the means employed? He is taught how to suffer being bored." – F W Nietzsche
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So how about giving some actual suggestions then? Because all I see now are a bunch of whining idiots who fuck up a perfectly good forum and then blame the mods for not stopping them. Its like the people who sue McDonalds for making them fat.

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
The quickest way to kill a revolution is to wait for it.
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If that wasn't a suggestion I don't know what is...

Who am I? That is irrelevant.
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You can call me Apathy!
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Not sure I get what you mean.

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
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but i dont want to stfu...

Hidden stuff:
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"The irrationality of a thing is no argument against its existence, rather a condition of it."

"Beer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy."
-Ben Franklin

"when I was a kid I used to pray for a bicycle. then I realized that god doesn't work that way. so I stole one and prayed for forgiveness."
"I would rather die for something I believe in than live for anything else."
"What is the task of higher education? To make a man into a machine. What are the means employed? He is taught how to suffer being bored." – F W Nietzsche
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Rebelnerd Wrote:So how about giving some actual suggestions then? Because all I see now are a bunch of whining idiots who fuck up a perfectly good forum and then blame the mods for not stopping them. Its like the people who sue McDonalds for making them fat.

You're contradicting yourself right here:

Rebelnerd Wrote:perfectly good forum

Perfectly good being a biased point of view. If you were abusing or trolling, the forums would be the greatest place to be right now.
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Kitsune, you are a troll. So why are you complaining?

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
The quickest way to kill a revolution is to wait for it.
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Rebelnerd Wrote:Kitsune, you are a troll. So why are you complaining?

I'm a troll?

I think you guys crossed the line on what is a troll or not.
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Yeah, mainly Strat.

<lordpie> Life sucks so much right now. It seems I'm spending all of it doing math.
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youvebeenthunderstruck Wrote:Yeah, mainly Strat.

'least he provides suggestions and just don't go around threads screaming:

KILL YOURSELF!
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Yeah, because I don't consider him worthy of proper responses, due to his lack of any brain, you included.

<lordpie> Life sucks so much right now. It seems I'm spending all of it doing math.
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youvebeenthunderstruck Wrote:Yeah, because I don't consider him worthy of proper responses, due to his lack of any brain, you included.
KILL YOURSELF

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KitsuneSefam Wrote:I'm a troll?

I think you guys crossed the line on what is a troll or not.

You were the one who suggested kicking soul out of the loop. Maybe we're not the ones who crossed a line.

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
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Everyone is worthy of at least some response. And nobody should be told to go and kill themself, except for Osama bin Ladin.

It is better to ask for forgiveness than for permission. - Neal Vitale
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And Jack Thompson.

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And bush, and Abraham Lincoln, and Rockefeller.

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Rebelnerd Wrote:You were the one who suggested kicking soul out of the loop. Maybe we're not the ones who crossed a line.

I'm sick of waiting, problem with that?
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Aviator Wrote:Everyone is worthy of at least some response. And nobody should be told to go and kill themself, except for Osama bin Ladin.
KILL YOURSELF
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KitsuneSefam Wrote:I'm sick of waiting, problem with that?
Waiting for what? An admin who'll spend less time keeping people from killing themselves and more time reshaping the forum into whatever you think it should be? It's meant to be a free forum, dude. Get used to it. Yeah, people might treat you like shit if you do stuff they don't like. Tough. Being a good admin on SS means not interfering. Disabling the forums was, I think, the wrong decision. But it's one black mark on soul's record, which is pretty damn good.

I think Buenaventura Durruti is a pretty cool guy. eh kills fascists and doesnt afraid of ruins.
The quickest way to kill a revolution is to wait for it.
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