Unconditional love, a love attributed to selflessness, it is mostly about them , extremely rare, difficult to feel if you are mostly selfish, and yes it is possible, but as said before it must belong to a very selfless heart. Most people give out conditional caring wether consciously or unconsciously. Since it is a selfless matter, unconditional love is often mistaken for submission, that is why it is rejected so much. Unconditional love is the most important thing in life, it is the key to true happiness and unity and to bring heaven to earth.
Compassion for enemies
I understand that to remove the veil of darkness, one must feel for their enemies.
Once again the world will become more heavenly, if one does not feel compassion they will only hurt themselves and be trapped in a ring of suffering.
Sex vs marriage, yes it is possible and superficial
No, love is independent, infatuation is the word you are looking for, dependency leads to suffering and it is not mature love.
True that you may feel down but it is not their job to make us happy.
Nobody can fully define love, but one thing everyone should agree on, is that love is supposed to be a positive thing, if it is positive, than it shouldn't be hurtful
Learning to see past all the flaws and good things about a person and seeing them for what they are, a person, and still care very much about them is my definition of true love. I see love as more of an attitude than a temporary selfish affection, their is logic in true love.
I think it allows freedom.
Love is not about the government
Love is not religious and it is not rooted in sexual activity, but learning to control and maintain the sexual urges is important in learning how to replace lust with love.
Love is not sexual pleasure!
That there is one of the biggest lies known to humanity. A lie that has hurt many people. A lie almost as ridiculous as eternal punishment in hell.
If selflessness is sexual, than rape, casual sex, and sexual coercion (all of which is too common) is love. Sex does not equal love.
True love can exist without a sexual side, sexual pleasure is usually about pleasing yourself, but if sex is treated more life a gift to share than a tool or an absolute necessity to be chased after, than selfless caring can begin to emerge.
(This post was last modified: 06-26-2015 11:33 PM by Cianna200.)