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Statutory Rape
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RE: Statutory Rape

in Islam its good to marry your daughters off young because the flip side of the equation, its easier for guys to get married if it is seen as a priority for girls.

the only major (potential) problem woukd be a lack of a proper childhood/freedom coupled with lack of guidance to prepare daughters and sons for marriage. my wife and i mutually had no idea how to be married and we had very little experience with freedom... that didnt start very well, but so far has ended up great.

also legal age w/marriage in il is 16 ( w/ parental consent)

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Statutory Rape - SethyDavidG - 12-17-2009, 12:57 AM
RE: Statutory Rape - Avatar Korra - 03-29-2017, 11:43 AM
Statutory Rape - James Comey - 03-29-2017, 02:29 PM
Statutory Rape - Gwedin - 03-29-2017, 06:16 PM
RE: Statutory Rape - Username - 03-29-2017, 10:39 PM
Statutory Rape - James Comey - 03-30-2017, 02:06 AM
RE: Statutory Rape - Gwedin - 03-30-2017, 02:56 AM
Statutory Rape - James Comey - 03-30-2017, 03:36 AM
RE: Statutory Rape - the Analogist - 03-30-2017 10:49 AM
Statutory Rape - James Comey - 03-30-2017, 11:37 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - psychopath - 12-17-2009, 01:07 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - SethyDavidG - 12-17-2009, 01:42 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - magikarp - 12-17-2009, 01:54 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - psychopath - 12-17-2009, 01:55 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - John Tuttle - 12-17-2009, 06:40 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - SethyDavidG - 12-18-2009, 08:56 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - IllusoryDeath - 12-18-2009, 09:12 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - CrayolaColours - 12-18-2009, 09:23 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - IllusoryDeath - 12-18-2009, 09:26 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - SethyDavidG - 12-19-2009, 04:57 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - LOON_ATTIC - 12-20-2009, 12:57 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - Ceiling Cat - 12-20-2009, 01:12 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - the forgotten - 12-29-2009, 12:20 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - CrayolaColours - 12-29-2009, 06:57 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - The Desert Fox - 12-30-2009, 02:35 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - Vatman - 12-31-2009, 08:21 AM
Re: Statutory Rape - CrayolaColours - 12-31-2009, 11:18 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - Kirby - 01-05-2010, 12:57 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - Ceiling Cat - 01-05-2010, 01:04 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - LOON_ATTIC - 01-05-2010, 04:27 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - nostaw - 01-06-2010, 03:32 PM
Re: Statutory Rape - Lovey - 01-06-2010, 11:21 PM

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