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I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

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Bitchy Mom Kms
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RE: Bitchy Mom Kms

(06-26-2017 08:22 PM)HawkbitAlpha Wrote:  "Homework" on School Survival. Punishment for failure to do it is getting banned. Now I've seen everything.

let me clarify...

1. you dont get banned for not doing the hw i assign.
you get a warning or a demerit or some such thing or you lose good invisible good faith points which everyone gets when they come in. im still working out the details and they will be flexible, fluid, adaptable.

2. this is just on of my ideas to make this a safe place for sensitive, non aggressive ppl. soulriser, site founder and final authority on all decisions here, can decide if she wants to support this idea.

i know she supports most if not all of what i have done so far, but she can and surely will make the final call

3. these are special measures for "problematic " people, not for the average or new user.

let's say the people on our shitlist

by our i mean sr, me, ben - the 12 year child prodigy/genious

btw - he is telling and showing me how he has been treated by ss forum members and ex members.....



im not a happy camper

for the record i love, adore, admire, and damn near worship him

i feel very protetive of him

and 20 minutes ago in our chat i asked him how safe he felt here, from 0-10

he said 3

That, is not ok.

I gave him my word i was going to change that.
(This post was last modified: 06-26-2017 09:58 PM by stevehein.)
06-26-2017 09:51 PM
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Bitchy Mom Kms - riverphoenix - 02-16-2017, 02:31 PM
Bitchy Mom Kms - AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA - 02-16-2017, 03:59 PM
Bitchy Mom Kms - Gwedin - 02-16-2017, 03:59 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 02-19-2017, 05:52 AM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 02-20-2017, 07:41 AM
Bitchy Mom Kms - Gwedin - 02-20-2017, 02:31 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - stevehein - 06-26-2017, 01:18 PM
Bitchy Mom Kms - xcriteria - 02-20-2017, 02:51 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 02-20-2017, 07:46 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - xcriteria - 02-20-2017, 02:53 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - xcriteria - 02-20-2017, 02:53 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - the Analogist - 02-22-2017, 10:48 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 02-23-2017, 07:46 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - the Analogist - 02-27-2017, 01:31 AM
Bitchy Mom Kms - James Comey - 06-26-2017, 05:30 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - stevehein - 06-26-2017, 07:54 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - stevehein - 06-26-2017, 08:02 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - James Comey - 06-27-2017, 04:04 AM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 06-27-2017, 07:55 AM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - James Comey - 06-27-2017, 07:56 AM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - sswbm - 06-26-2017, 08:13 PM
Bitchy Mom Kms - HawkbitAlpha - 06-26-2017, 08:22 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - stevehein - 06-26-2017 09:51 PM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - stevehein - 06-26-2017, 10:14 PM
Bitchy Mom Kms - NiteRaidah - 06-27-2017, 08:51 AM
RE: Bitchy Mom Kms - vonunov - 06-27-2017, 12:17 PM

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