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I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

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Growing Up
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Growing Up

My god, I haven't been on this site in 3 years. I'm looking back at my old posts and cringing the hardest I ever have in my life. 7th grade me was a horrible human being. I'm glad that I grew up and actually matured enough to have respect for others!

I was such an asshole to Gwedin in particular because I was afraid of others' opinions in particular *cringe* I'm sorry Gwedin!
(This post was last modified: 11-10-2015 02:39 AM by metallica86.)
11-10-2015 02:34 AM
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Growing Up - metallica86 - 11-10-2015 02:34 AM
RE: Growing Up - Cianna200 - 11-10-2015, 02:45 AM
RE: Growing Up - metallica86 - 11-10-2015, 02:47 AM
RE: Growing Up - schoolsux - 11-10-2015, 10:19 AM
RE: Growing Up - brainiac3397 - 11-10-2015, 08:26 AM

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