How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school?

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How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school?

I know the feeling somewhat, from when I was in school. I didn't feel that bad, but I know the feeling.

If school isn't working for you, is it possible you could talk to your family about unschooling? Depending on your country/state, it can be pretty simply for them to notify the school district that you're homeschooling.

Depending on your age, you may also be able to drop out and take the GED or equivalent. Some people are able to do early college.

What do your parents think?

Also, do you have any ideas about your future, like what you'd like to do for work or just in general once you're on your own?

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How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - TasmSpectacular - 10-28-2014, 10:24 AM

How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - xcriteria - 10-28-2014, 10:03 PM

How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - xcriteria - 10-28-2014 10:04 PM

RE: How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - sswbm - 10-29-2014, 10:59 PM

The School Survival Movement: Abolish Compulsory Schooling - TheCancer - 10-28-2014, 11:13 AM

How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - GamerGurl - 10-28-2014, 09:19 PM

RE: How to get rid guilt for skipping too much school? - Superkamiguru - 01-13-2017, 09:18 PM

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