My dad's verbal threats

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To everyone who joined these forums at some point, and got discouraged by the negativity and left after a while (or even got literally scared off): I'm sorry.

I wasn't good enough at encouraging people to be kinder, and removing people who refuse to be kind. Encouraging people is hard, and removing people creates conflict, and I hate conflict... so that's why I wasn't better at it.

I was a very, very sensitive teen. The atmosphere of this forum as it is now, if it had existed in 1996, would probably have upset me far more than it would have helped.

I can handle quite a lot of negativity and even abuse now, but that isn't the point. I want to help people. I want to help the people who need it the most, and I want to help people like the 1996 version of me.

I'm still figuring out the best way to do that, but as it is now, these forums are doing more harm than good, and I can't keep running them.

Thank you to the few people who have tried to understand my point of view so far. I really, really appreciate you guys. You are beautiful people.

Everyone else: If after everything I've said so far, you still don't understand my motivations, I think it's unlikely that you will. We're just too different. Maybe someday in the future it might make sense, but until then, there's no point in arguing about it. I don't have the time or the energy for arguing anymore. I will focus my time and energy on people who support me, and those who need help.

-SoulRiser

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My dad's verbal threats

Everytime I do something wrong or something that he doesn't like he starts saying things suck as:You won't be a good person when you grow up,You eat shit,You don't know how to be a good student(WTF?),you're garbage and etc.He also relates to my worst subject...Math everytime I do calculations wrong or a Math problem wrong,he starts saying no wonder you suck at math...stuff like that.

And like everytime he say those things it just annoys me and pisses me off and sometimes it kills my self esteem which leads to me doing horrible at school...which makes this whole thing full circle again.Don't bother trying to reason with him either because if you do he just says something like "Back in the days I had no one to reason with and it was waaaay harder than the situation you're living in right now...End of Discussion

Help?!?!?! anyone???!?!? suggestions?!?!?!?!